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Rowyn Jade Dead's avatar

I love it when a man says "fatherless behavior" because I can't imagine the mental gymnastics (or perhaps atrophy) I'd have to go through to think that the failure of men as a whole is somehow an insult to a woman who survived it.

But it is so much more entertaining when I can tell them yes, I am sooooo "fatherless"; my dad worked hard and provided for me and STILL gives me hugs and teaches me guitar stuff and tells me he loves me.

I'm 35.

Every time a man thinks he's delivered some sort of mic drop in any case with anyone anywhere, it truly is a self-burn 99.99999% of the time.

Camille Urso's avatar

I feel like the most serious man haters come from extraordinary fathers who set the bar so high. All men know how to do is project their failings onto women or onto other men. Fucking useless and brain dead. Unworthy of literally anything this life has to other.

Camille Urso's avatar

Also the “perhaps atrophy” is sending me lmaooooo

Aya's avatar

I love, love, love this! I can instantly tell a man has no father present in his life by how he speaks about women online. They always tell on themselves.

Don’t be upset my daddy was present and showed me how to navigate the creepy pool of rapists and violent men.

My father always told me to put myself and my interests first because I am a woman and very precious.

Your works keep me grounded in a misogynistic and twisted world. ❤️

Camille Urso's avatar

They are so fucking mad and they try to pass off their disdain towards our alleged “shitty dads” as if it’s coming from a place of moral superiority when actually it’s coming from insecurity and inability to be accountable for literally anything. You get it 🩷

Aya's avatar
Jan 31Edited

Tell your dad to have a great day. ❤️ to the dads who raised strong and beautiful women.

Alyssa's avatar

Besides my general obsession with every single scathing thing you write, I also love the ode to a wonderful dad and happy childhood memories. I hope Papa Validated is having a good day.

Camille Urso's avatar

I’ll pass the message onto him 🩷 as always, thanks for being here 🩷

Mila Baba Yaga's avatar

These always come at the right time. I don’t have a good dad, I had two very bad dads and spent my life learning that to tangle with men at all is a fools game and actually dangerous, having nearly lost my life to one. Interesting a man showed up in my dreams last night acting like a brat and dream Mila dragged him by his feet backwards out the door and stomped him. I hear you when you say you want to beat them when you see them enjoying themselves. As an adult I now have a third dad, my mums partner, who tracks my location (van life) and checks on me every single day. Who shows concern for my well being. It is like sunshine. It is new. I am breathing again. I know my value. And, I need these scathing take downs more than ever, to keep me on track, lest I wobble and allow someone’s stinking son to come near this glistening seraphic beingness that is me. Thank you 💕

Camille Urso's avatar

SPEAK ON ALL THAT!!!! This is heartbreaking to hear, but I love Dream Mila and knowing she’s existing on another plane protecting you is so so so comforting 🥲 honored to remind you of your worth in uncertain times. And you can have a fourth dad in mine 🤍

Mila Baba Yaga's avatar

Awh 🥲 this made smile the gentlest softest little smile. Ily radiant being. You always have my deepest blessings 🕯️✨🤍

Shayon Lashgari's avatar

Officially started a spreadsheet of all your insults, like I’m an ancient scribe.

Camille Urso's avatar

Future generations will thank you for your service 🩷

Mlle K's avatar

The last line of this has my grin ear to ear 💞